The first year

What changed, month by month

Weeks 1 to 6

Survive and feed

Sleep when you can, accept every offer of food, and let the washing wait.

Months 2 to 4

A rhythm appears

Not a schedule, a rhythm. Days start to look a little alike, which is a relief.

Months 5 to 8

First tastes

Most babies start solids around six months. Ask your clinic when yours is ready.

Months 9 to 12

On the move

Crawling, pulling up and getting into every cupboard. Time to lock a few.

FAQ

Things I would tell a friend

Not rules. Just what I wish I had heard.

Do I need all the baby gear?

No. A safe place to sleep, a car seat, nappies and clothes cover the first weeks. Buy the rest when you know you need it.

How do I know if something is wrong?

Trust the feeling. Phone your clinic or doctor; they would rather hear from you.

When does it get easier?

In small steps, usually when you have stopped watching for it.