We read the books. We went to the classes. Nothing quite prepared us for the first six weeks, so here is what I would tell a friend.
1. You will not sleep much, and that is normal
Newborns wake often to feed. It is not a sign that you are doing something wrong.
2. Say yes to every offer of help
Someone wants to bring a meal? Yes. Hold the baby while you shower? Yes. You can return the favour next year.
3. Feeding takes time to learn
For both of you. If it hurts or worries you, ask your clinic sister early rather than late.
4. The house can wait
Clean enough is clean enough.
5. Talk to someone
If you feel low for more than a couple of weeks, tell your doctor. It is common, and help works.